Thursday, July 9, 2015
The Independence Day holiday has just passed, and technically we're only 3 weeks into summer, but that milestone (the 4th of July) always seems to mark the "halfway point" in the summer season. I suppose it is because schools start so much earlier than they used to.
I'm sitting on the back porch, watching the sun set behind the mares as they graze in pasture now rich and green from the 15 inches of rain we had last week. A doe ventures into the field from the creek, and 5 dogs are immediately screaming across the grass, making it clear that it is unwelcome as long as they are on duty. The other evening I returned home to find 3 doe and twin fawn grazing amid the horses, everyone getting along just fine. I watched until they wandered off, amazed at the manner in which the mothers communicated with their young through only ear twitches and subtle movements.
It's been a trying week; holiday weekends always are but also because a dear friend was critically injured in an accident and air lifted to Erlanger. Monday and Tuesday become one long blur. She is amazingly strong, and while still in intensive care, and with a massively long road ahead of her, we feel more confident that the imminent danger has passed. Life on the farm is not the same without her daily interaction in our lives, and the dogs are out of sorts as well, as "howling with Janie" is a near daily ritual. In the pain and tragedy of the experience was a stark reminder of the tenuous thread which binds us all, and how rapidly it can unravel. We will continue to do whatever we can to support our friend, but that will become more important as she begins the arduous process of physical rehabilitation and transitioning back to her home just down the road from us.
The garden is coming along beautifully, with everything doing well except the peppers, and a second sowing of my favorite veggies have just been put in. Sunflowers and zinnia provide pops of festive color, and early evening "porch sitting", listening to the snorts of the mares, watching the bees pollinate and enjoying the songs of our many feathered residents is the highlight of the day. Our farm is now a certified Wildlife Habitat by the National Wildlife Federation!
Lightening bugs are blinking their mating signals as I watch the last bits of daylight fade. Venus and Jupiter are up in the western sky, hanging just above the large black walnut tree to my left. Hounds litter the deck around me, tree frogs serenade down by the creek, and aside from the stench of the chicken litter that my neighbor has spread on his field, it's a pretty darn perfect, 75 degree summer night!
I've intended to put up some of my favorite waterfall hikes/scenic drives, and I will. I think what I've learned from all that has happened with my friend is that you do what you can with regard to the non-major stuff, and aside from love, friends, and
relationships, it's all pretty non-major stuff. There will always be work to do; we may not always have the people we love to visit with. The next time someone pops by just to chat and you're "too busy", I hope you'll pause and take the time. When you're rushing about stressed with all that "must be done", just find a bit of nature and sit for a moment. The stores here sell a sign that I love: "Never get so busy making a living that you forget to have a life." Excellent advice.